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SoCal Homesteading's avatar

I have been through this too, until I realized, that since the Mesopotamian times, the body we get after birth and during menopause, has been worshiped. A low hanging belly and hanging breasts are marks of the battles of birth, our gray hair and wrinkles are testaments to the life we have led. I wear the clothes I like, not what others like, or I think they will like. I wear clothes that protect my body and are comfortable to wear. I don’t color my hair, and I don’t wear makeup either. Me is just me, going through the faces of live, being the way I am.

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Kimberly Gallaway's avatar

While I am not in that stage of life yet. I do believe that body image and aging is hard at any age in their own ways. I am sad for today’s youth and the standard imposed upon them. And just yesterday I had a moment of weakness when my own daughter tired on what I wore when I got married and proceeded to say “WOW! mom you used to be this skin!” …. Wait a minute what do you mean used to be child!?!? After the initial shock, I reminded her and myself, yep! I was 20 and yet to have children since then this body has housed 5 beautiful babies and body just doesn’t quite ever go back after that and it shouldn’t and that’s ok.

And speaking of dresses shortly afterwards my first ever new “fancy” dress should up and honestly it would not have looked as good I my 20 year old body ❤️

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